I stumbled upon another article this morning and really wanted to
share it with you all.
♥ 1 Solve Arguments
Peacefully
Notice yourself fighting your better half more lately? The
only quick- fix is to stop doing it. The best couples
are those who know when their partner is angry and when not to talk back to him/her. During fights, it is best to keep as calm and
collected as possible and to not fight back. As long as one side stays calm, the other
will follow. Things won’t go as far as broken dishes and hearts if arguments are avoided
and solved quickly.
♥ 2 Spend More
Quality Time Together
One- on- one
time is HIGHLY important for couples. Instead of arranging special lunches
and dinners with your friends, you’re your better half a day or two just for them. Spend the entire day
doing the things
you two love and stay really close. Listen to your favorite
music, watch
your favorite movies, and go to your favorite
restaurants, in short just what you two love doing together. Couples who spend more quality time together are more
attracted to each other and tend to last longer than those who
don’t.
♥ 3 Help Each
Other Grow
Partners understand each other; they know each others’
strengths and weaknesses. There is no better
person to help you grow and better yourself in life than your better half.
There is a reasons they’re called your
“Better Half” to begin with. You need to completely open up to them and understand them at the
same time. The best couples are those who help each other
change and do new things, achieve their goals and dreams and make sure they get
What
they wanted from life.
♥ 4 Trust Each
Other
Trust is one of the most important words when you’re in a
relationship. It sets boundaries and limitations and also makes sure the couple stays loyal to each other. You need to trust your partner blindly and let them do the same to you. If the trust
is real, you will never be happier with another person in your life. There is no better feeling
than knowing your better half loves you and would never ruin your trust at any cost.
Be comfortable and trust them.
♥ 5 Love And
Respect Each Other
You both are different individuals. The reason you two are so
compatible is because you’re both totally different from one another. The best
relationships are those where things are vibrant and different. You need to respect your
partner’s choices in life and make them respect yours. You both need to understand the
differences in one another and learn to love them for the sake of a healthy, long- lasting
relationship.
♥ 6 Through
Thick And Thin
Love doesn’t mean just being with them through the happy days
of life and leaving them when they’re down and out. Love is about sticking with them through
the worst of times and the best of times. The best couples are those who conquer their
hardships together and make it a memory To laugh at in
the future. As I said earlier, your better half is your strength, you need to
open up To them about everything that bothers you and everything that
makes you happy.
♥ 7 Don’t
Compete With Them
Most modern relationships end because the couples end up
competing with each other. The point of being in a relationship is to
strengthen each other and make them reach their goals, not compete with them just to make
them feel inferior to you. This one goes
Both ways, I’ve seen both men and women competing against
each other, in certain situations, the men are trying to prove they’re “real men” and
try getting better than their Ladies. And in some cases, the lady feels that her man isn’t
giving her as much importance and becomes bigger than him. Stay equal, stay happy.
♥ 8 Listen To
One Another
Happy couples have a keen interest in really paying attention
to what their partners are saying. Not just nodding
your head and saying yes to everything, but really listening and understanding. Conversations are the epitome of every relationships and
really getting the gist of it is the most important part of it. Couples need to start paying
more attention to each other, not in a sexist way either. It’s a thing nowadays that girls should talk and men should listen, I say
both of them should
talk to each other.
♥ 9 Be Intimate,
Cuddle and Hug Daily
Cuddling is definitively THE best perk of being in a
relationship. It is so important and has so many healthy affects. Intimacy is highly important in
long term relationships; don’t let the intimacy die after a few years. Even after you have kids, both of you need to make an effort in making each other Happy intimately
every day. Don’t give up on intimacy, ever. Hugs and kisses go a long way Too. A little kiss before going to work, that romantic candle- lit dinner, or just plain lying under the moonlight can do wonders for intimacy.
♥ 10 Keep
Realistic Expectations
Don’t act like you’re in a movie. Both of you are human and
you need to remind each other to keep realistic expectations from each other. As long
as a firm grip on reality is kept, nothing can create a gap between couples.
♥
this is great, i try to live by most of these things, its a good reminder!
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thats awesome, im trying to live by these after reading this article.
DeleteAM CURRENTLY HAVING A ROUGH TIME IN MY RELATIONSHIP & THIS ARTICLE HELPED ME AND ENLIGHTENED ME IN A SPECIAL WAY , THANKS YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING ,
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glad it helped.. these are definitely some good tip/reminders.
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